Big thanks Lynn and Laura for affirming the music in this one... and for your comments.
Big thanks also Michelle for the appreciation and suggestions.  I'm definitely moving towards "banishing" the capital letters.  Still pondering on the gender-or-not question.
Big thanks AE for your honesty and directness...I'm only on the start of my journey and have everything to learn.
And big thanks Brian, no apology needed for honesty and you've spoilt nothing... you have made me think harder.

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Have finally mastered the format riddle!